ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS

 A memorable example of how body language can sometimes be more 

truthful than verbal language involved the rape of a young woman on the 

Parker Indian Reservation in Arizona. A suspect in the case was brought 

in for questioning. His words sounded convincing and his story was plau-

sible. He claimed he hadn’t seen the victim and while out in a field had 

gone down a row of cotton, turned left, and then walked straight to his 

house. While my colleagues jotted down notes about what they were 

hearing, I kept my eyes on the suspect and saw that as he told the story 

about turning left and going home, his hand gestured to his right, which 

was exactly the direction that led to the rape scene. If I hadn’t been 

watching him, I wouldn’t have caught the discrepancy between his verbal 

(“I went left”) and nonverbal (hand gesturing to the right) behavior. But 

once I saw it I suspected he was lying. I waited a while and then con-

fronted him again, and in the end he confessed to the crime.

In The Blink Of An Eye

 “Eye-blocking” is a nonverbal behavior that can occur when we feel 

threatened and/or don’t like what we see. Squinting (as in the case with 

my classmates, described above) and closing or shielding our eyes are 

actions that have evolved to protect the brain from “seeing” undesirable 

images and to communicate our disdain toward others.

As an investigator, I used eye-blocking behaviors to assist in the arson 

investigation of a tragic hotel fire in Puerto Rico that claimed ninety-seven 

lives. A security guard came under immediate suspicion because the 

blaze broke out in an area where he was assigned. One of the ways we 

determined he had nothing to do with starting the fire was by asking him 

some very specific questions as to where he was before the fire, at the 

time of the fire, and whether or not he set the fire. After each question 

I observed his face for any telltale signs of eye-block behavior. His eyes 

blocked only when questioned about where he was when the fire started. 

Oddly, in contrast, he did not seem troubled by the question, “Did you set 

the fire?” This told me the real issue was his location at the time of the 

fire, not his possible involvement in setting the fire. He was questioned 

further on this topic by the lead investigators and eventually admitted to 

leaving his post to visit his girlfriend, who also worked at the hotel. Unfor-

tunately, while he was gone, the arsonists entered the area he should 

have been guarding and started the fire.

In this case, the guard’s eye-blocking behavior gave us the insight we 

needed to pursue a line of questioning that eventually broke the case 

open. In the end, three arsonists responsible for the tragic blaze were ar-

rested and convicted of the crime. The security guard, while woefully 

negligent and burdened with tremendous guilt, was not, however, the 

culprit.

Suggestion

 किसी की उतनी ही कदर करे,

  जितनी वह आपकी करता है,

     बेहिसाब कदर आपका सुकून तबाह कर देगी।

Suggestion

 एक पल के लिए ही सही,

किसी और की चेहरे की मुस्कान

                 बनो!!

Suggestion

 अपनी रोशनि की बुलंदियों पर कभी ना इतराना,

चिराग सबके बुझते हैं क्यों की हवा किसी की नहीं होती।

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